Conversations with Cam

The Bullshit Blueprint: Breaking Your Dating Patterns with Sabrina Zohar

Conversations with Cam

Show Notes

In this episode, I sit down with dating and relationship coach, podcast host, and author, Sabrina Zohar, to unpack why we keep repeating the same relationship patterns even when we know better. Sabrina breaks down her "Bullshit Blueprint" framework, the subconscious wiring we pick up from childhood, and how to heal and break your toxic dating patterns. We get into attachment styles and how they play out in dating and why "if he wanted to, he would" is one of the most damaging taglines on the internet.

Key Takeaway / Points: Why our triggers as adults in dating relate back to what we learned from childhood

Why we unconsciously seek out familiar (often unhealthy) dynamics and repeat them in dating because they feel like "home"

Breaking down the four attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized) and how each shows up specifically in dating

Social media dating taglines that are total myths

What healthy relationships actually look like

Advice for having hard conversations in relationships

Order Sabrina’s book “Why Am I Like This? Break Your Relationship Patterns and Create the Life You Want" HERE

Check out Quiet Your Mind & Busy Your Hands journal and coloring affirmation books at quiet-your-mind.com.

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