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Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson is the strongest man in the world. You only see the top of the iceberg with successful people - the accomplishments, the fame, the titles. But who did they have to become on the inside to make that outside reality possible? Hafþór shares who he had to become, recorded three days before he attempted the world record in the deadlift at the Enhanced Games in Las Vegas. Expect to learn how growing up on a farm shaped him, what it felt like being the same height at 13 as he is today, how basketball formed him, how an injury led him into powerlifting, how he unexpectedly signed up for strongman, his relationship with his body, the sacrifices he had to make, how his purpose shifted from personal achievement to pushing the limits of human strength, who Hafþór is beyond his body, the importance of the people you surround yourself with, how to deal with negative people and judgment, retiring from strongman into boxing and back again, the mindset and values behind his success, the acting career that started with Game of Thrones, how his partner has influenced his life, what he hopes his son will say about him one day, what he was thinking before attempting the world record, how he is preparing for life after strongman, and much more. Get a 140-page workbook with evidence-informed tools that will make your life instantly better https://usa.beggiolafs.com/subscribe Get Unlock, the conversational cards that transform connections: https://shop.lydia.so/products/unlock Learn more about Dr. Olafsson's story and work: https://usa.beggiolafs.com/ Get in touch in the comments or head to: Instagram: thedrolafssonpodcast Email: [email protected]
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Cory Richards is a keynote speaker, former professional athlete, and author. You hear all the time about reinventing yourself. What if that's not about becoming someone new, but becoming more of who you really are, underneath the fear, the old programming, and the stories you tell yourself? Expect to learn why you should stop lying to yourself and others, how to build a purpose beyond your job title, how relieving your secrets destroys shame, how to be honest without being a dick, how to deal with feeling not good enough, how to feel your emotions authentically without letting them consume you, the skill of authoring the story of your life, why you should choose a partner that feels like home, how to close one chapter of your story to write the next, and much more. Get a 140-page workbook with evidence-informed tools that will make your life instantly better https://usa.beggiolafs.com/subscribe Get Unlock, the conversational cards that transform connections: https://shop.lydia.so/products/unlock Learn more about Dr. Olafsson's story and work: https://usa.beggiolafs.com/ Get in touch in the comments or head to: Instagram: thedrolafssonpodcast Email: [email protected]
Today's guest is... me. At a young age, I learned that I was loved for what I did, not for who I am. For the vast majority of my life, I've been driven by not being enough, always working to validate my existence and prove my worth through something external. That program gave me accomplishments I once only dreamed of. But nothing on the inside ever quite filled up. You have that inner critic too. And if you're like me, at some point in your journey, after trying to fill the emptiness inside with something outside yourself, you get tired of living this way and want to change. But you're scared to, because the old wiring is strong, and some part of you believes that letting go of it means losing your drive, becoming stagnant, going soft. In this episode, I make the case for how you can win without hating yourself by changing, or even letting go of, the inner critic you built to protect yourself, the one that once served you well, but that you've started to question today. Expect to learn how the inner critic forms, why accepting him matters more than fighting him, how to shift your relationship from judge to playful coach, the power of giving him a name, why laughing at him is the final boss of this journey, the difference between self-critiscism and self-reflection, why shame isn't helpful, how self-compassion actually increases motivation rather than killing it, and why loving yourself on the way to something great means you don't have to choose between the two. Through my own story, and the 300+ people I've coached through the same shift, you'll walk away with real insight and real tools for how to win, without hating yourself along the way. Enjoy. Get a 140-page workbook with evidence-informed tools that will make your life instantly better https://usa.beggiolafs.com/subscribe Get Unlock, the conversational cards that transform connections: https://shop.lydia.so/products/unlock Learn more about Dr. Olafsson's story and work: https://usa.beggiolafs.com/ Get in touch in the comments or head to: Instagram: thedrolafssonpodcast Email: [email protected]
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Today's guest is... me. You never really know someone until you know their story - here is mine, from being a football player in Iceland to a psychologist in Los Angeles, and everything in between. It's been a wild journey, to say the least. When I was about 27, I secretly wished for a harder life, where I got tested. I learned that you should be careful about what you wish for, since by far the toughest years of my life were when I stopped playing football, left an 8-year relationship, lost a family member, and left my whole life, packed my bags, and moved to LA. Expect to learn why I stopped playing football, why my relationship ended, how it felt leaving everything in Iceland and starting from scratch, how it feels when life doesn't make sense, the role of resilience in hardships, the road less traveled, the pain of authenticity, how I've consistently turned my pain points into my purpose, and much more. Get a 140-page workbook with evidence-informed tools that will make your life instantly better https://usa.beggiolafs.com/subscribe Get Unlock, the conversational cards that transform connections: https://shop.lydia.so/products/unlock Learn more about Dr. Olafsson's story and work: https://usa.beggiolafs.com/ Get in touch in the comments or head to: Instagram: thedrolafssonpodcast Email: [email protected]