Show Notes
Could your sexuality be something you learn to embrace instead of something you need to fear or control? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, a psychologist and teacher who helps people work through sexuality and develop healthier, more intimate relationships. We discuss moving beyond the idea that sexuality is simply something to manage or suppress and exploring how it can create connection, strength, and goodness in our lives.
Jennifer shares why sexual shame often creates more fear and disconnection, and why the goal is not to reject our sexuality but to learn how to relate to it in a way that aligns with our values. We discuss what it means to make thoughtful choices, see yourself as the architect of your life, and move from “I can’t” toward “I’m choosing.”
You’ll learn how to reframe your relationship with your sexuality, why shame can make it harder to make wise choices, and how embracing your sexual nature can help you create a life that reflects who you want to be. Jennifer also shares a powerful perspective on moving from fear and prohibition toward intentionality, self-respect, and love.
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