Show Notes
Mistress Wei joins Eva Oh to talk latex in the tropics, sex parties in Singapore, and building a thriving kink career in one of Southeast Asia’s most discreet yet dynamic BDSM scenes. From her first session to public perceptions and regional fetish culture, Wei shares how she’s carved out a space for power, play, and pleasure—with a mask on, of course.
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HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Mistress Wei, a Dominatrix in Singapore (02:20) - From a Random DM to Shadowing a Session (05:00) - Latex Fetishists in Humid Singapore (07:50) - Shibari in Singapore (08:55) - Kink Population in London vs Singapore (10:50) - How to Find Sex Parties in Singapore (13:30) - So Many Achievements Already! (16:50) - Singapore's Public Perception Relations (21:40) - Who Attends Singapore's Sex Parties (24:30) - Bangkok Fetish Ball (25:00) - Singapore, South East Asia's Biggest Kink Community (26:00) - Masks, Anonymity and What it's Like Being Recognised (32:40) - Words of Encouragement from Mistress Wei
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