Show Notes
What if the very thing you thought would end you became the reason you’re still here? This episode reminded me of the original why behind this podcast. ADHD Untangled was created to give hope. To empower. To prove that the very struggle that once made us feel broken can become our greatest strength. To reach the ones who are still in the middle of it — in the thick of addiction, shame, self-destruction — and remind them that it’s not too late. You are not too far gone. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with writer, activist and adventurer Kit Birks just days before she sets off to walk the entire length of Europe solo. Her mission? To raise awareness around suicide, ADHD and the stories we’re told to keep silent about. Kit shares her raw and honest story — from battling depression, eating disorders and addiction, to getting diagnosed with ADHD in recovery and finally realising she wasn’t broken, just misunderstood. We explore the link between dopamine and destruction, how masking and emotional pain lead us into addiction, and how movement, nature and meaning can help us come back home to ourselves. This one is deep, real and needed. 🧠 In this episode we cover: ADHD, addiction and the missing dopamine piece
How emotional dysregulation, masking and shame fuel destructive behaviours
The life-changing power of diagnosis and self-compassion
The recovery process: messy, honest and ongoing
Using movement and nature to reconnect with yourself
Kit’s year-long solo walk across Europe for suicide prevention
The stories we carry and why we need to tell them 🎧 Listen if: You’ve ever felt broken or like you didn’t belong
You’re navigating addiction, recovery or mental health struggles
You want to understand the real link between ADHD and self-destruction
You’re ready to hear a story of hope that doesn’t skip the hard parts 🧡 Support Kit: Follow @kitbirks on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kitbirks TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kitbirks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kitbirks Share your story or donate at www.kitbirks.com
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Have you ever felt the need to change who you are in order to fit in? me too! And I’ve spent so many years hectically running around this world trying to be everything and everyone else but my true myself Party girl, house wife, rebel, addict, yogi…. To name a few Hoping that eventually, something would work and something would fix me and make me normal… None of it ever did.
But two things in my life that have allowed me to live a more meaningful and authentic life and that is Yoga & My ADHD Diagnosis, which is why I am on a Mission to support as many individuals with ADHD to turn their struggle into strength with ADHD through Movement & ADHD Coaching.
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