The Brian O'Loughlin Podcast

#44 - What If I Never Feel Like Myself Again?

The Brian O'Loughlin Podcast

Show Notes

There’s a particular fear that can appear somewhere in the middle of life.

“What if I never feel like myself again?”

You’re exhausted. Your motivation has changed. You don’t enjoy things in quite the same way. You’re more anxious or unsettled than you used to be.

You can have a successful career, a family you love and a life you’re grateful for, yet privately wonder why you feel so disconnected from it.

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And naturally, you want to get back to the person you were.

But what if that isn’t the task?

In this episode, I explore what can happen when the ways you’ve spent decades creating certainty, achievement, control, responsibility, providing, planning and constantly moving forward stop working in the way they once did.

Maybe you haven’t lost yourself.

Maybe you’re losing the way you learned to be yourself.

And what initially feels like something going wrong may be an invitation into an entirely different relationship with success, uncertainty, your family and ultimately yourself.

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