With and For hosted by Dr. Pam King

The Unexpected Benefits of Play, with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson

With and For hosted by Dr. Pam King

Show Notes

Episode Highlights

"When we laugh, when we are sitting in delight, it expands–It not only keeps us in our window of tolerance, but it expands our window of tolerance."

"We also know that play is just a huge protective factor. It allows people to process their experiences, but also build skills for the future."

"Play is really about doing something for the enjoyment of it, for no other reason, but for the enjoyment."

"The more stress you have, the more play you need."

"To hold multiple emotions that more than one thing was true... gives us tremendous capacity to be resilient and have more mental and cognitive, flexibility as well as emotional flexibility."

Helpful Links and Resources

Books by Dr. Tina Bryson

The Way of Play (Tina’s latest book!)

The Whole-Brain Child

No-Drama Discipline

The Yes Brain

The Power of Showing Up

Follow Tina Bryson:

TinaBryson.com

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Dr. Pam King is Executive Director the Thrive Center and is Peter L. Benson Professor of Applied Developmental Science at Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy. Follow her @drpamking.

About With & For

Host: Pam King

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Special thanks to the team at Fuller Studio and the Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy.

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