Sex Stories: How To Do You

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Sex Stories: How To Do You

Show Notes

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Sexual shame, formative firsts, kinks, fantasies, and pleasure palaces—Luna shares the questions she’s spent years using to uncover how we learned, what we love, and what we’re still curious to explore.

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⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 How to use the Sex Stories questions on your own, with a lover, or to record your own episode 08:20 Intro questions: sexual shame, what’s sexy, your current sex life, wooing, safety, and communication 13:05 How did you learn? Sex ed, consent, formative experiences, sexuality, love, and professional origin stories 15:31 What do you love? Pleasure, body sensations, kinks, fetishes, fantasies, toys, porn, orgasms, and sexy stories 21:58 Nudes, porn, sex dreams, orgasms, and what kind of lover you are 27:06 Co-creation: sexy hopes for the future, your dream pleasure palace, and creating a more loving world 27:55 The question archive: early sex lessons, masturbation, oral sex, safer sex, group sex, parties, and fantasies 33:02 More archived questions: body hair, sex work, your younger self, and the overall Sex Stories arc 37:01 How to introduce yourself, join the live show, or use these questions with your lovers 39:26 Going beyond sex: vulnerability, lifestyle, deeper connection, and journal prompts

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