193 | instagram live q&a replay: autism headlines, affirming supports, + the just one thing challenge
EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kidsShow Notes
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 this episode is a replay of my instagram live q+a, where we processed the recent press conference linking autism and tylenol. i shared reflections on research, stigma, and neurodiversity-affirming care, and answered parent questions in real time.
we covered the nuance of research, medication conversations, ableism and stigma, and most importantly — how parents can ground themselves and their families.
a special thank you to sam marion, lcsw (@sammarioncounseling) for moderating the live chat and helping to hold respectful space for this conversation. THE JUST ONE THING CHALLENGE toward the end of this episode, i introduce the just one thing challenge—a free 7-day practice designed to help parents slow down, ground themselves, and notice one small glimmer in the middle of daily overwhelm.
join the just one thing challenge starting monday, october 6th, 2025 – on instagram: follow @the.dr.tay and message JOTCHALLENGE – not on instagram? sign up here
TIMESTAMPS 00:00 introduction + intent of the live 01:46 introducing sam marion 03:51 processing the press conference 06:20 what neurodiversity affirming care really means 07:50 dr. tay’s background + perspective 09:52 making sense of autism research 12:36 diving into parent questions 24:05 responding to the administration’s narrative 39:54 fda-approved medications + leucovorin discussion 41:51 understanding pda + affirming supports 44:15 debunking tylenol + autism myths 45:56 confronting stigma + ableism 48:58 concerns about government policies 51:54 supporting autistic kids + families 01:10:51 the just one thing challenge 01:15:34 closing reflections + resources
RESOURCES ⚡️ join EVOLVE the membership to find community + support in your parenting journey ⚡️ learn more about dr. tay's whole family approach + current clinical services offered at drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me + submit questions that may be featured on a future episode >> instagram @the.dr.tay tiktok @the.dr.tay
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