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Male Etiquette in the Kink Scene w/ Kyron Kruger - performance anxiety, latex love & power play

Come Curious

Show Notes

What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene?

This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent to performance pressure and what it really takes to show up respectfully in kink spaces.

Kyron shares how he found himself in the industry through fetish communities, why being a male sex worker is far more than just sex, and how emotional intelligence, trust, and reputation are everything.

Expect to hear ALL the juice on: – Why men need to stop expecting people to read their minds – The truth about performance anxiety (and why erections ≠ good sex) – How to respectfully approach dominatrixes (and why your DMs aren’t it) – The importance of serving your partner — even as a dom – Breaking down shame around men, desire, and vulnerability

This episode is honest, eye-opening, and essential listening for anyone navigating kink, dating, or sex with more awareness.Follow Kyron on IG @the_kyron_kruger and see his latex loving side @king_kruger_

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