I Hate It Here

S12 E10: A Few of My Own First-time F*ckups + Some Jaw-Dropping HR Horror Stories

I Hate It Here

Show Notes

Okay, so as we wrap up this podcast season, we’re gonna make this final episode a little different…featuring Hebba and her thoughts, and apparently zero filter!

This season of I Hate It Here was all about firsts and for the season finale, Hebba makes personal!

Listen as she walks you through three of her own HR firsts, performance reviews, terminations, and picking the right system, followed by what she wishes she'd done, and what she would tell herself if she had a time machine.

And then, because Hebba couldn't let the season end without a little chaos, she rounds this episode out with some HR horror stories that were sent in by members of the IHIH community.

Whether you're deep in your HR career or just getting started, this one's a reminder that none of us really know what we're doing the first time, and that's kinda the whole point. 🫶

00:00 - Intro

02:45 - The First Time Hebba Ever Did Performance Reviews

09:08 - Navigating Your First Termination With Empathy

16:59 - Choosing the Right HR Tech Stack

20:30 - A collection of HR Horror Stories---

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