Show Notes
Can’t make up your mind about marrying your girlfriend or not? Can’t make up your mind about the TV you need to buy? Can’t make up your mind about staying or quitting your job?
If the prospect of making a decision makes you feel overwhelmed and paralyzed, then you need to listen to this episode!
In this episode, Dr. Sally Winston, Psy.D. and I discuss the processes behind making a decision and what keeps you stuck when having to make a choice. Quite often, when facing these dilemmas, we play-it-safe by overthinking, dwelling, or ruminating, and end up putting ourselves into analysis-paralysis: thinking a lot about a choice without taking action. If you’re in the habit of not making a choice, you may be dealing with chronic indecisiveness, which is more than ordinary indecisions.
Key Takeaways
The processes behind chronic indecision How to nurture experiential knowledge Wise mind The limitations of pros and cons How to nurture a wise mind
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