You Are Not Crazy

Knowing Your Pattern Isn't the Same as Changing It, with Stefanos Sifandos

You Are Not Crazy

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I've been listening to Stefanos Sifandos for years, long before this podcast existed. I first came across him through Mark Groves during the stretch of my life when I was busy diagnosing everyone around me, and something he said pushed me to flip the question from why this person does what t...

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