You Are Not Crazy

The Lying Isn't an Accident: A Conversation with Anne Blythe from BTR.org

You Are Not Crazy

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This week I'm joined by Anne Blythe, founder of BTR.org (Betrayal Trauma Recovery), an organization that has supported over 9,000 women navigating a partner's lying, gaslighting, infidelity, and manipulation. Anne shares her own story of spending seven years and seven therapists trying to un...

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