Show Notes
In this week's "They Said What?" segment, Shanna and Laura cover a bedtime conversation that took a shocking left turn, a sentence Laura never expected to say out loud, and an adult's comment about beauty standards that made a lasting impact. Also, Laura reports on a Portland trip derailed by wildfire smoke and saved by 300 pinball machines, and Shanna navigates her daughter's emotionally charged earring switch. They also share this week's BFPs and BFNs.
Kids' ages: Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10.5 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5.5 years old.
Topics discussed in this episode: • What to do when wildfire smoke ruins your vacation plans • Getting kids comfortable changing their earrings • Body image conversations with young kids • When your five-year-old is in a sweet, grateful phase • When your kid says something completely out of left field at bedtime • Using OpenTable and Resi's notify feature to snag last-minute reservations • Taking your kids to their first concert
Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • Next Level Arcade and Pinball Museum, Hillsboro OR • Fox Theater Pomona • Gado Gado Portland • OpenTable / Resy • Indiana Jones soundtrack on Spotify • Schindler's List soundtrack by John Williams • Beach Bunny • Vertigo by Beach Bunny
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