Show Notes
In the first ever live coaching session of The Sabrina Zohar Show, Sabrina sits down with brand ambassador and content creator Judit Moreno for an unfiltered conversation about anxious attachment, the father wound, and why so many of us keep dating emotionally unavailable men. They unpack how childhood shapes adult relationship patterns, what love bombing does to your nervous system, and why self-abandonment can feel like home when chaos was your blueprint for love.
If you have ever wondered why you keep attracting the same partner in different bodies, spiraled in anxious attachment dating cycles, or felt like you are "too much" in relationships, this episode is for you. Sabrina walks Judit through real-time inner child work, reparenting, and the powerful mindset shift from wanting to be picked to actually choosing yourself. A must listen for anyone working on attachment theory, healing childhood trauma, and breaking toxic dating patterns for good.
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Chapters:
00:00 First Live Coaching Session
05:15 Anxious Attachment & Father Wound
10:36 When Anxiety Takes Over Your Body
14:47 Be Picked vs. Picking Yourself
19:30 Toxic Love, Gaslighting & Cheating
24:38 Normalizing Chaos in Childhood
29:39 Why Chaos Feels Like Love
35:27 Who Are You Without Struggle?
41:08 Loving the Parts You Hate
46:13 Shame, Guilt & Reparenting
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