Let's Talk About It

What Nobody Tells You Before Marriage...

Let's Talk About It

Show Notes

Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they would’ve known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could?

In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, “I do.”

We’ll talk about: The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get married

Whether the first year of marriage is actually the hardest

What every husband loses when he gets married and why it’s worth it

The seasons of marriage no one posts about online

Whether attraction fades or changes over the years

What loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitment

Why so many married men struggle alone

What they wish someone had told them about sex before marriage

How kids completely change your marriage

Practical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parents

What they’d tell the guy who’s been dating for years but won’t propose

The qualities every woman should look for in a future husband

Marriage isn’t about finding the perfect person. It’s about becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, sacrifice, communicate, and stay committed through every season.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, we think this conversation will leave you with a healthier picture of what marriage is really like.

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