Show Notes
You both want to get married. But have you talked about what life together will actually look like?
Who handles the money? How involved are your families? What happens when one of you is struggling with your faith? And are you quietly hoping something about the person you’re dating will change after the wedding?
In this episode, we’re walking through 16 questions every couple should ask before saying “I do,” covering faith, family, finances, everyday life, and sex. These are practical conversations that can help you understand what you’re each expecting before you build a life together.
We’ll talk about: What a Christ-centered marriage looks like in everyday life
How to talk through differences in beliefs and convictions
Supporting each other through seasons of doubt
Family patterns you want to keep or change
Setting expectations around in-laws, holidays, and parenting
Getting honest about debt, spending, and sharing money
What you expect your lifestyle to look like after the wedding
Dividing household responsibilities and the mental load
Making room for time together, friendships, and alone time
Talking honestly about sex, pornography, and sexual history
Whether you’re secretly expecting your partner to change after marriage
If you’re seriously dating or engaged, watch this together. Pause after each section, ask the questions, and give each other room to answer honestly. The more you understand about each other now, the more intentionally you can prepare for marriage.
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