Show Notes
Pursuit isn’t a personality trait, it’s a skill. And so is being pursued.
Too many Christian singles think one person should do all the work while the other just waits to be chosen, but healthy relationships aren’t built on passivity. They’re built on intentionality from both people.
In this episode, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to pursue someone well and what it means to receive pursuit without playing games, sending mixed signals, or disappearing into passivity.
Whether you’re the one asking someone out or the one deciding whether to say yes, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you date with clarity and confidence.
We’ll talk about: The five biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman
How women can encourage pursuit without chasing
Why “playing hard to get” usually backfires
What healthy leadership actually looks like in dating
How to show interest without sacrificing your dignity
When it’s time to define the relationship
Whether women should ever make the first move
If the guy should always pay for the date
How to know when pursuit becomes pressure
What to do when someone pursues you well… but there’s no spark
Whether you owe someone an honest “no” instead of fading away
This episode isn’t about dating games, it’s about learning the practical skills that lead to healthy relationships, strong marriages, and dating with intention.
Because how you date is often how you’ll marry.
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