Show Notes
In this first episode of Mum to Mum with Doctor Tash, we talk about why connecting with your child matters more than simply correcting their behaviour. From tantrums to teen moods, we explore what’s really going on beneath the surface and how small moments of empathy can change everything.
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Many of us have somehow internalised this heavy belief that to be a "good" or "safe" parent, we have to respond immediately to every single demand from our children. But trying to be a superhero who meets every need right away isn’t just exhausting, it actually misses the point of what our kids truly require to feel secure.
The feeding is done, the nappy is clean, they’ve been swaddled, rocked and shushed—and yet, the tears keep coming. Your heart starts racing, your head starts spinning with "What am I doing wrong?", and you feel that desperate urge to just make it stop.
Ever felt like you’re failing because your child is upset and you can’t make it stop? We’ve all been there. We think that being a "good mum" means keeping our kids in a state of constant happiness. But what if we have it backwards?