Show Notes
Sarah Stroh talks about her book, Monogamaybe, her process coming to terms with her non-monogamous identity and finding a partner who supported her in that journey. We discuss how to manage and process jealousy and what agreements look like in non-monogamy when you want to be your best poly self but the reality is you’re struggling.
Resourced mentioned:
Sarah's bonus episode on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Knenv8lsQpqdXo57e9ZJ8?si=dEnFvBDDQmKjSQJMJRzA-g
Sarah's bonus episode on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Polycurious/posts/dating-as-new-ep-171433818
Ep.45 Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep45
Sarah's book Monogamaybe? : Honest advice on navigating relationships from monogamy to polyamory:
https://www.monogamish.me/pages/monogamaybe
When Jealousy Shows Up (Sarah's 12 min video guide):
https://www.monogamish.me/courses/hack-your-jealousy
Polycurious' Jealousy Survival Guide: https://www.polycurious.com/resources
Follow Sarah on IG: https://www.instagram.com/monogamish_me/
Subscribe to Sarah's Substack: https://substack.com/@monogamish
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