In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

ADHD and siblings: Tips from an expert

In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

Show Notes

When siblings have different needs, what’s a parent to do?

In this episode of “In It,” hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek talk with Dr. Ari Tuckman, a psychologist who works with families and couples. He shares tips for finding balance in parenting kids when one has a learning or thinking difference. And he talks about the importance of the idea that “fair doesn’t always mean equal.”

This is part two of a two-part series. In part one, we talked to Becca, a mom of two raising one child with ADHD and one without.

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