The Autism Dad

9 Year Old Aria Co-Hosts! Life, Laughter, and Lava Chicken (S8E23)

The Autism Dad

Show Notes

Need a smile today? This episode is your dose of joy.

Aria—my 9-year-old stepdaughter and fan favorite—is back on the podcast and taking over the mic. From overcoming her fear of water to her growing love for Stranger Things and Taylor Swift, Aria is full of heart, humor, and surprises. Stick around to the end for her incredible rendition of “NeverEnding Story.” You don’t want to miss it.

Aria shares her world in a way only a neurodivergent kid can. Whether you’re a parent of autistic children or just need a boost of hope, this episode is a reminder that progress comes in many forms—and joy is often found in the little things.

Link to Aria's Minecraft Movie Review: https://pod.fo/e/2c91bc

What we talk about in this episode:

Aria’s 9th birthday update and summer highlights

Overcoming fear of water through swim lessons

Her experience at bike camp and learning to ride

Confidence-building moments and milestones

Music class, school talent shows, and performing on stage

What it was like to take a photo with the mayor

Her love for Stranger Things (with a disclaimer for younger kids)

A behind-the-scenes look at our dog Kacie and birthday plans

Aria’s live performance of “NeverEnding Story” from Stranger Things

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About Rob Gorski:

Rob Gorski is an autism advocate, content creator, and father of three autistic sons. He’s the founder of The Autism Dad platform and host of The Autism Dad Podcast. Rob’s mission is to support and empower families raising neurodivergent kids through honest conversations, lived experience, and practical advice.

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About Aria:

Aria is a vibrant 9-year-old who loves music, dogs, Stranger Things, and making people laugh. She’s been featured in multiple episodes of the podcast and brings her unique perspective and big heart to everything she does.

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