Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

What's Really in a Mom's Bag? - Ep. 407

Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

Show Notes

In the brand-new special segment "What's in Your Bag?," Laura and Shanna dig deep to discover the hilarious items that only parents would have lurking at the bottoms of their purses and bags, including a soggy sensation that made Shanna recoil and the sad remains of a once-glorious creation that Laura remembers fondly. Also, Laura reports on her 5-year-old's progress in his new TK classroom, and Shanna checks in on her family's action-packed weekend in San Diego. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a fancy purchase Laura made just for herself and a dinner experience that Shanna was surprisingly delighted by. Shanna’s kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura’s kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode: • Transitioning your child to a new classroom mid-year • Kids' sports: what to expect from Little League at age 7 • Planning low-key family weekend trips in Southern California • What's really at the bottom of a mom's bag • Setting up a home sewing and craft room • Reclaiming pre-kids hobbies as a parent • Credit card points: a secret weapon for personal splurges • Taking your kids to live music at dinner

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • Savannah Bananas • Museum of Illusions • Margaritaville Hotel • Mission Beach • Belmont Park • Giggles candy • Owala water bottle • Deadpool • Brabantia Ironing Board • Teddy Swims • "As It Was" by Harry Styles

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 406 - Where Shanna talks about Owala water bottles vs. Stanleys • Ep. 404 - Where Laura talks about Sebastian transitioning into the TK classroom at his school

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