Show Notes
Welcome to Part 1 of a powerful three-part series focused on special needs financial planning. In this episode, I’m joined by the amazing Katy Bryan, a Chartered Special Needs Consultant from Skylight Financial Group. Katy brings over 14 years of experience helping more than 250 families plan for their future. We’re breaking things down into real, understandable steps—starting with the basics.
This episode focuses on the early stages of the journey—from diagnosis (or even before) to preparing for the unexpected. We talk about what parents should start thinking about when they first realize their child may need lifelong support, and how to start planning financially without being overwhelmed.
What We Cover:
Why financial planning matters early in the special needs journey
Common challenges families face right after diagnosis
How and when to reach out to your county Board of Developmental Disabilities (DD)
Understanding Medicaid, Social Security, and how income affects eligibility
What a waiver is and why you want to get on the list ASAP
Navigating stigma, burnout, and the lack of direction many parents feel
The emotional toll of those early years—and why it’s okay if you’re not thinking long-term yet
When to start thinking about special needs trusts, STABLE accounts, and other tools
Katy helps parents shift from survival mode to building a solid financial foundation for the future—one step at a time. Whether your child just received a diagnosis or you're several years into the journey, this episode is full of validation, guidance, and real-world advice.
Guest Info:
Katy Bryan
Chartered Special Needs Consultant, Skylight Financial Group 📧 Email: [email protected] 🌐 Licensed to work nationwide
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Disclaimer:
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