The Positive Habits Podcast

How Kitchen Discos Build Confidence

The Positive Habits Podcast

Show Notes

In this episode, Kat is joined by Bella - a rising talent whose energy “jumps off the page” on LinkedIn and into real life.

Together, they unpack the small habits that quietly build confidence, protect mental health, and shift your day from autopilot to intentional.

Bella shares how Atomic Habits introduced her to habit stacking, why music became her mood-reset tool during high-rejection cold-calling days, and how her current “kitchen disco party” habit (3–5 minutes while the kettle boils) sets her up for better focus and energy.

They also explore boundaries with social media (and why scrolling can feel like a trance), how to change your mindset by changing what you consume, and the powerful ripple effect of small daily choices - at home, at work, and inside teams.

Bella opens up about her work at Purple Story - a people-first business that improves performance by developing leaders and culture and the team habits and values that shape confidence and growth.

ABOUT THE GUEST

Bella Hacking is a Business Development Executive at Purple Story. She works in leadership and culture development at Purple Story, helping people and organisations grow through better communication and self-awareness. Coming from a hospitality background, she’s deeply interested in the habits, mindsets, and small daily choices that shape how we show up at work and in life. Link to linkedin: linkedin.com/in/bella-hacking-281874107 Link to website: purplestory.co.uk Link to youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PurpleStory-DigitalLearning

ABOUT HOST KAT

Kat started her career as a teacher, before moving into Tech where she worked in different executive roles within teaching and consulting working across the globe, both in the public and private sector. Despite appearing 'successful' on the outside, she paid a heavy ‘life’ price. In 2016, her whole world collapsed. The reason? The compound effect of years of unhealthy and toxic habits that destroyed her health, relationship, and career. She suffered a severe breakdown and lost everything. In the middle of this she got headhunted for her first CEO role. She rebuilt herself by changing just one small habit and built a series of positive habits which has transformed her professional and personal performance, resulting in becoming the healthiest and happiest version of herself. She is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe. https://www.linkedin.com/in/katthorne https://www.instagram.com/the_morning_gamechanger

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