
Show Notes
Belonging at work is one of those things everyone claims to care about… right up until someone shows up as their full self and suddenly it’s “not professional!”
I hate the idea that someone has to assimilate to belong, so Erica Lydell and I pull the curtain all the way back on masking, identity, neurodiversity, and why belonging is less warm fuzzy feeling and more daily emotional CrossFit.
If you’ve ever been the only one in the room (or felt like you had to earn your seat) this episode will hit you square in the gut…in a good way!
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0:02:23 - Erica’s Experience Riding a Camel
0:07:02 - Learning That Belonging at Work Isn’t Automatic
0:10:02 - Having to Mute Yourself in Professional Settings
0:18:13 - The Concept of Professionalism
0:26:59 - What Does Belonging at Work Feel Like?
0:42:01 - What Leaders Need to Understand About How Identities Impact How People Show up at Work
0:49:29 - Where to Find Erica
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