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Why Women Sabotage Other Women (The Hidden Psychology of Female Rivalry) | Dr Dani Sulikowskii

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Dr Dani Sulikowski is an evolutionary psychologist, professor, and researcher at Charles Sturt University, Australia. In this conversation we discuss how competition amongst women sometimes involves sabotage, triangulation, manipulation and deceit. Female intrasexual competition is often a competitive reproduction strategy that results in a handful of winners and many losers. Dr Sulikowski reveals the deep layers of manipulation, bullying, coercion and abuse at play. We also discuss the Jason Arday trajedy, narcissism, the impact of ideology in society and the catastrophic outcomes. Female intrasexual competition is far more ruthless than most people realise.

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00:00 Dani Sulikowski intro and origin story 02:13 Aggression Male v Female 04:46 Female Intrasexual Competition 05:30 Sabotage, Narcissism and Cluster B 08:00 Reproductive success and evolution 13:00 Sabotage 14:00 Narcissism, Dark Triad and Psychopathy 19:34 Gossip and Relational Aggression 22:00 Workplace bullies 25:30 Status and the workplace 28:00 Female Psychology 31:00 Cancel Culture, Ideology, Hate Speech 45:49 The Jason Arday Affair 1:02:03 Universities and the Academy 1:06:00 Trans and the Justice System 1:12:19 Dating, Sex and Relationships 1:20:00 Toxic masculinity & feminism 1:24:51 Social Policy, Ireland and Australia 1:31:30 Tradition and a Personal Price Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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