Show Notes
You scheduled sex so you wouldn't have to keep asking. Then the night came, you spent the day reading her mood, you waited for her to start, and nothing happened. Now it feels like proof that she doesn't want you.
In this episode we'll cover why scheduling sex so often fails to give men what they were hoping for. A schedule can offer predictability and take pressure off the other nights. It can't make you feel wanted, and it can't do the asking for you.
You'll hear:
- What a schedule is good for, and why it only works if she agreed freely
- How watching her mood all day talks you out of the evening before it starts
- Why waiting for her to initiate hands her a job she never agreed to
- What happens when a missed night has to be made up, or gets dropped without a word
- Why sex has become your main route to feeling close, and what's missing
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