Miss May at E1 Darkroom: Filth, Deep Cleaning, Dating and Domination in Germany vs the UK
You Will Please MeShow Notes
Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Miss May at her play space, E1 Darkroom (01:30) - Why Start a Playspace? (02:48) - The Draw of Filth and Intensity (04:40) - The E1 Darkroom Impact (06:20) - Cleaning, The Central Tenet (07:50) - The Rarity of a Good Service Subs (09:10) - Different Client Dynamics and Friend-Zones (12:20) - Dungeons and Dating (15:40) - Sadism, Objectification and Oral Sex (17:15) - Polyamory, Cheating and Evolving Desires (19:05) - An Excuse to Ask What I Want (19:40) - Miss May's Ideal Life (21:00) - Money and Sex Work vs the Investment of Dating (22:50) - 'Dominant' Men, the Ick and the Stereotype of the Patriarchy (26:40) - Professional Domination: Germany vs the UK (34:20) - How to be a Dominatrix - Hygiene! and... (36:20) - How to Hire E1 Darkroom
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