Show Notes
Wanting people to like you isn't the problem. Needing them to is. In this episode, Dr. Aziz walks through the specific moment when a preference for approval crosses over into a compulsion, and lays out seven concrete signs the reader may recognize from their own life.
Some of these are the ones you've named before. Others are more subtle. Together, they diagnose one underlying condition your nervous system may have been running for longer than you realized.
This episode covers:
The exact crossover from I'd like to be liked to I need to be liked
Seven concrete signs you may be running the pattern (with real examples)
Why one criticism can outweigh a hundred positive reflections
The root cause underneath all seven, and what actually shifts it
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