Show Notes
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center, we welcome back Dr. David Clarke, a Christian psychologist with over 35 years of experience. Dr. Clarke joins us to discuss his latest book, 'Adult Children Who Break Your Heart,' a follow-up to his renowned work, 'Enough is Enough!' Throughout the episode, Dr. Clarke delves into the intricate dynamics of dealing with adult prodigals. He begins by defining what constitutes a prodigal in today's context and explores the reasons behind the increasing number of adult prodigals. Addressing the challenges faced by many parents, Dr. Clarke offers insights into overcoming guilt and managing relationships with unsupportive spouses in the face of familial strife. Dr. Clarke introduces 'Strategic Truth Statements,' a tool for parents to navigate the emotional and psychological challenges they face. The episode rounds off with an overview of the 10 specific prodigal scenarios covered in his book, providing listeners with practical guidance and hope for reconciliation and healing. For anyone grappling with the pain and complexity of strained relationships with adult children, this episode offers a blend of empathy, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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