Show Notes
Is your child struggling—and you’re not getting answers from “normal” tests? Hit play. This could change everything.
In Part 2 of my powerful conversation with Dr. Theoharis Theoharides, we explore how neuroinflammation, mast cell activation, and overlooked biological factors can affect autistic children. We dive into my son Gavin’s journey, how traditional testing failed us, and what we discovered when we looked deeper. If you’ve ever felt dismissed or unsure where to turn next, this episode will give you new hope and direction.
Why this matters:
Too often, symptoms like gut issues, eczema, or extreme food sensitivity get brushed off. Dr. Theo shares what many pediatricians miss—and how identifying and treating the right things can dramatically improve quality of life for neurodivergent kids.
What We Cover:
What neuroinflammation means for autistic children
How mast cells can impact behavior, speech, and health
Why standard labs often miss important clues
The difference between food allergies and food sensitivities
What to test for—and how those tests can uncover treatable issues
Gavin’s personal health journey and the lessons we’ve learned
How to support your child without trying to change who they are
Why we need real research, not empty promises
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Guest Bio: Dr. Theoharis Theoharides
Dr. Theo is a renowned physician-scientist and expert on mast cells, allergies, and neuroinflammation. With decades of research and hundreds of publications, he helps families uncover treatable biological conditions often missed in traditional autism care. Learn more at drtheo.com and algonot.com.
Host Bio: Rob Gorski
Rob Gorski is the father of three autistic children and the creator of The Autism Dad blog and podcast. He’s been sharing his family’s 25-year autism journey to help other parents feel seen, supported, and empowered. Rob’s work has been featured by CNN, ABC News, BBC, and more.
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