What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

Fresh Take: Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley of "I Mom So Hard" on Surviving Middle School Parenting

What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

Show Notes

How do we parent middle schoolers while simultaneously experiencing the PTSD of our own middle school years? Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley , co-hosts of "I Mom So Hard," join Margaret to talk about their how new book, THE MIDDLE SCHOOL MOM'S SURVIVAL GUIDE, approaches puberty, changing friendships, and the increasingly high stakes of parenting tweens and teens with plenty of humor.

Margaret, Kristin, and Jen discuss:

How our own middle school experiences can color the way we parent

Why kids need room to make mistakes and figure things out for themselves.

Why being bored makes a kid more interesting

Parenting middle schoolers while navigating perimenopause, menopause, and aging parents

Here's where you can find Kristin and Jen:

https://imomsohard.com

Listen to the "I Mom So Hard" podcast

@imomsohard on FB, IG, YouTube, and Threads

@realimomsohard on TikTok

Buy THE MIDDLE SCHOOL MOM'S SURVIVAL GUIDE: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781668201916

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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