Show Notes
MJ has been on a deep and fast ride into sexuality since an accident catalysed a self-investigation in 2019. She has since brought forth the Joyride Sex Parties and Socials, studied with the Institute for Sexuality, and has plans for expanding the world of sex tech. Join MJ and Eva Oh for a #teakink episode through MJ's discoveries, sex doll brothels, Irish sexuality, the sexual concerns of cis-het men, boundaries and pleasure. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet MJ of Joyride Sex Parties and Socials (02:00) - Taking it to Ireland (03:50) - Queerness at Joyride's Centre (08:10) - An Accident as a Sexuality Catalyst (12:55) - Sex Tech and Sex Doll Brothels (14:40) - The Future of Joyride (16:30) - Irish Storytelling (17:10) - Irish Sexuality (18:35) - Merging Sex Tech and the Physical (23:00) - Cis-het Men Healthy Porn Habits, Erectile Dysfunction and Loneliness (28:05) - The Viscerality of the Sex Party Dancefloor (29:00) - Safeguarding and Freedom in Clubs in Berlin vs London (32:50) - The Laboratory Berlin and the State of Queer Cruising (34:00) - The People Behind Joyride (35:30) - The Kink Coalitipn (37:00) - What Actually is a Sex Party? (42:00) - Why MJ Stays Out of the Playspace (49:00) - Berlin Porn Film Festival and the Venus Convention (51:00) - Sexual Education? (53:10) - Pleasure
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