Show Notes
In this episode, I talk about desire as a sacred path back to yourself—how wanting (not just needing) is deeply empowering in life and in the bedroom. I share how to recognize true desires, rekindle turn-on with simple practices like fantasy and play, and meet any inner resistance with compassion. We finish with a gentle guided visualization to help you connect with your own desire and take one small, aligned step forward.
In this episode, I talk about:
How your desires can guide you toward an authentic life
Needs vs. desires — why the difference matters
Building self-worth and daring to want more
Desire as the gateway to your erotic self
Why fantasizing is good for your sex life
Owning your turn-ons (and turn-offs) without shame
Why desire doesn’t have an expiration date
A guided practice to connect with what you truly crave
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