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No.1 Autism Expert: The Darkest Side Of Autism Nobody Talks About | Sir Simon Baron-Cohen

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Show Notes

Professor Sir Simon Baron-Cohen is a British clinical psychologist and world-renowned expert on autism.

In this deeply personal and eye-opening conversation, we explore the hidden struggles of being autistic, from the loneliness of feeling different and the emotional cost of masking to the link between autism, addiction and mental health. We uncover why autistic people can see patterns others miss, the truth about autistic empathy, and what happens when years of masking leave you questioning who you really are.

An essential conversation for anyone who has ever felt different, misunderstood or alone.

Chapters:

00:00 Trailer 02:24 What Everyone Gets WRONG About Autism

08:02 The Hidden Psychological Cost of Feeling Different

10:01 Are You Born Autistic? Nature vs Nurture

11:32 Why Autistic People Crave Intellectual Intimacy

14:59 The Loneliness Nobody Talks About

19:07 When Autistic Obsessions Become Superpowers

21:20 The Darkest Side of Feeling Different

23:56 The Shocking Link Between Loneliness and Addiction

28:08 The Hidden Cost of Autistic Masking

33:05 When Masking Makes You Lose Yourself

38:33 Why Autistic Girls Are More Vulnerable to Abuse

42:22 Why Autistic Brains See What Others Miss

49:55 The Biggest Myth About Autistic Empathy

01:17:30 An Emotional Letter to My Younger Self

Buy Simon’s book 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Pattern-Seekers-Theory-Human-Invention/dp/014198239X

Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817

Alex’s book about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 👉 https://linktr.ee/adhdchatter?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=9ffd8709-06df-444c-9936-c136fbd14d6e

Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer editor: Ryan Faber

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