Not In Front of the Kids

Pink Hair, Date Nights and the Vasectomy Debate - Nathan and Cara Are At It Again

Not In Front of the Kids

Show Notes

Nathan and Cara are back, and somehow a conversation about their daughter's pink hair turns into a debate about sex, vasectomies and whether either of them can be trusted with a hobby.

This week on Not In Front Of The Kids, Nathan and Cara are talking about the everyday chaos of parenting - from letting your kids express themselves to the arguments that somehow start over absolutely nothing. Should kids be allowed to dye their hair? Is it really that deep? And what happens when the school actually approves of it?

They also look back on a trip to the Tower of London, Nathan's apparent friendship with a Beefeater and his questionable knowledge of royal history, before getting onto something slightly more important - keeping the romance alive when you've got kids.

Because date nights sound great in theory. In reality, finding the time, energy and inclination can be a completely different story. Nathan and Cara talk honestly about intimacy after having children, how kids change your relationship and whether romance can survive the relentless demands of family life.

Then things get even more personal with the big vasectomy debate. Who should take responsibility for family planning? Would Nathan actually go through with it? And if there was a male contraceptive pill, would he take it?

In the courtroom this week, an odd hobby of taxidermy would you let your child do it?

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