Feminine as F*ck

489: Nobody Warns You About the Motherhood Identity Crisis (Here's What I Learned So You Don't Have To)

Feminine as F*ck

Show Notes

So lost, yet so clear.

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Monica vulnerably shares her story of the identity shift she’s been moving through since becoming a mum, including months of nothing feeling right; grieving her signature program, Queen Alchemy, and her highly successful 3-day event, The Immersion; and how she stayed in the discomfort of the unknown instead of hurrying to figure it out. If you’re in a season of not knowing—whether that’s post-baby, post-burnout, or just post-whoever you used to be—this episode will give you permission to stop forcing an answer that isn't ready yet.

Also inside:

🌼 Monica’s "breadcrumb" visual to help you feel anchored while you’re going through an identity shift 🌼 What feeling lost really means for you 🌼 Hilary Duff as a lesson in the quantum leap that only comes when you go all in on one version of yourself 🌼 Why healing your trauma before you become a mum changes your entire postpartum identity experience 🌼 Why you can’t hear your intuition from a dysregulated nervous system 🌼 The hard decision to end Queen Alchemy and The Immersion, and the grief that came with it 🌼 How working with Monica will change in this next season, and why she’s keeping her containers much more intimate

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