Spiritual Bypassing: When Faith Is Used to Avoid Pain and Accountability
Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic & Emotional AbuseShow Notes
Join us in Episode 9 of 'Mad.In.Love' with your host Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center and Emotional Abuse Institute. In this episode, we welcome Sharmen Kimbrough, one of our distinguished clinicians, as we delve into the intricate and often misunderstood concept of 'Spiritual Bypassing.' Sharmen brings her expertise and enthusiasm to the table, unpacking what spiritual bypassing truly means. Through a series of examples and anecdotal stories, we explore how this phenomenon can unintentionally hinder the counseling process and obstruct therapeutic change. The discussion also navigates the differences between spiritual bypassing and spiritual abuse, providing clarity on these closely related yet distinct concepts. Additionally, Sharmen shares valuable tools and strategies for effectively confronting and dealing with spiritual bypassing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the subtle complexities of spirituality within the therapeutic context. Tune in for an insightful journey into the realm of spiritual health and emotional well-being. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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