Show Notes
In this episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I sit down with my 25-year-old autistic son, Gavin, for a candid update on his journey. We talk about his transition out of a group home, what he’s learning along the way, and his hopes for the future.
If you’re parenting autistic children or supporting neurodivergent kids as they grow into adulthood, this conversation offers both real-world challenges and encouraging progress. Gavin shares openly about work, housing, self-care, and even his dream of becoming a streamer. These insights matter for families navigating the shift from childhood to adult life with autism.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
Why Gavin left his group home and what families should look out for
The importance of stable hours and fair pay when autistic adults enter the workforce
How self-advocacy and job coaching can support independence
Gavin’s goals for future housing and financial stability
Honest reflections on managing stress and remembering to ask for help
His interest in streaming, content creation, and sharing his experiences online
The role of grandparents and family support in transitional stages
Gavin’s approach to self-care and why he’s trying a massage for stress relief
If you’re raising neurodivergent kids, this episode is both relatable and inspiring. It shows the ups and downs of supporting an autistic young adult, while also reminding us how much growth is possible with patience, advocacy, and support.
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About Rob Gorski
Rob Gorski is the father of three autistic children and the host of The Autism Dad Podcast. As the founder of The Autism Dad blog and podcast, Rob shares his family’s 25-year autism journey to educate, validate, and support parents worldwide. His work has been featured on CNN, ABC News, BBC Worldwide, and the Tamron Hall Show.
About Gavin Gorski
Gavin Gorski is a 25-year-old autistic adult navigating the challenges of independent living, employment, and personal growth. He brings unique insight into the adult autism experience and shares openly about his goals, struggles, and dreams for the future.
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