107: Q&A – rebuilding desire, expressing needs, unhealthy fantasies, overcoming shame and MORE
Yes, please...Show Notes
This Q&A is overflowing with bold, vulnerable, and relatable questions from my FREE GROUP COACHING gathering. It’s playful, honest, and deeply empowering. Zero shame, zero filter — only truth, guidance, and pussy wisdom.
In this episode, I answer:
How to rebuild intimacy and desire after heartbreak in a long-term relationship
Keeping the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships
How to communicate likes and dislikes in bed without offending my husband
How to express wanting a highly sexual partner while dating, without attracting men only seeking casual sex
Are any sexual fantasies “unhealthy”?
Struggling with arousal after having a child and feeling unsatisfied with quick, non-nourishing orgasms
How to tell my partner I want deeper sexual growth and fulfillment when I feel too shy
Overcoming shame around quick masturbation after trauma and learning to enjoy “quickies” with myself
Why did my body shut down sexually after breakthrough orgasmic experiences at age 57?
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