Not In Front of the Kids

I'm Going To Ibiza While My Wife Takes Our Kids To Disneyland Alone - Episode One And We're Already Fighting

Not In Front of the Kids

Show Notes

Fair warning - this is the first episode and they are already fighting! How could Nathan think jetting off to Ibiza on a stag do and leaving Cara alone in Disneyland with the kids was going to go down well? Buckle up.

We are kicking off with something that is genuinely causing tension in the house right now - holidays. Specifically, can you actually relax on holiday when the kids come with you, or is it just parenting in a different postcode? Is it selfish to go on holiday without your kids? How do you survive long haul travel with children who have decided this is the moment to completely unravel? Would you ever sedate your child for a long flight? Are you a bad parent for taking your kids out of school for a holiday?

In The Courtroom this week, they react to a shocking parenting confession - a parent who admits they genuinely prefer one of their children over the other, and believes that does not make them a bad person. Nathan and Cara have thoughts. A lot of them.

This is the show for parents who are done pretending it is all fine. The ones who love their kids more than anything and are also absolutely losing their minds. The ones who fight about holidays and date nights and who did more last night and whether the kids watch too much telly and then laugh about it an hour later because what else are you going to do.

Buckle up. It is going to be a very long flight.

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