Show Notes
Show Notes: Special Needs Financial Planning (Part 2) — The Autism Dad Podcast
In this episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, Rob Gorski continues the special needs financial planning series with guest Katy Bryan from Skylight Financial Group. Katy specializes in helping families of children with disabilities plan for the future and shares key steps to prepare for your child’s transition to adulthood.
Rob and Katy discuss why everything changes at age 18: managing assets under $2,000, understanding Social Security benefits (SSI/SSDI), and navigating Medicaid. They explore common questions around special needs trusts, guardianship, and power of attorney, and offer tips for finding a financial or estate planner with real disability expertise. Rob shares his own family’s journey—the struggles, learning curves, and how resources like vocational programs made a difference for his kids.
Highlights:
Social Security (SSI/SSDI) eligibility after 18
Managing assets and income to maintain Medicaid/benefits
Special needs trusts, guardianship, and power of attorney
The value of working with planners who “get” disability families
Building a sustainable budget and future plan for your child
How to access local job training and support resources
Guest Info:
Katy Bryan, Skylight Financial Group
Email: [email protected]
Thank You to This Week’s Sponsors:
Safe Place Bedding
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Autism 360
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Disclaimer:
Catherine Bryan is a registered representative of and offers securities and investment advisory services through MML Investor Services, LLC, member SIPC, OSJ, 1956 Carter Road, Suite 200, Cleveland, Ohio 44113, Phone: (216) 621-5680. California Insurance License #4175736.
The information in this podcast is not a recommendation and is not intended as financial, tax, legal, or estate planning advice. You should seek guidance from a qualified financial advisor, accountant, and attorney regarding your personal situation.
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