Show Notes
Eva Oh has been getting invited to more and more crazy rich sex parties to manage BDSM dungeons and entertain guests with kinky installations. Enter the clandestine operations of sex parties for the uber wealthy - where multiple day productions cost millions, where guests and staff are flown in all expenses paid from across the world, and where Eva often sits in between the gratitude of a gig and the spectacle, shock and concerns of extreme wealth.
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HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Crazy Rich Sex Parties and NDAs
(02:30) - Where and How?
(03:30) - Who Runs and Attends Them?
(04:20) - Staffing, Recruitment and Production Companies
(08:14) - What Do I Do at Them, BDSM Show and Tell
(09:40) - Consent Concerns
(13:30) - The Overwhelm of Extreme Wealth
(15:55) - Crew Bonding, Catering and Naps
(17:50) - Theatre, Campness and Value
(19:15) - A Story, The Labyrinth of a Guest Experience
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