Show Notes
In this episode, Rachel talks about a belief that keeps so many people stuck. The idea that pelvic pain is different from every other type of chronic pain.
She shares why pelvic pain really does feel uniquely heavy for many people, and also why it is not different in the ways that determine your ability to heal.
Rachel explores the shame, isolation, fear of infection, medical dismissal, and impact on identity and relationships that often come with chronic pelvic pain. She also explains why the nervous system works the same way no matter where symptoms show up, which means neuroplastic pelvic pain can be unlearned.
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Even though no one can do the healing work for you, that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone.