Feminine as F*ck

475: Why Your Inner Control Freak Is Ruining Your Life and Relationships (And How to Finally Let Go)

Feminine as F*ck

Show Notes

Learn why you can't let go of control, how controlling behavior blocks your intuition and destroys the polarity in your relationship, and the path back to trusting yourself again.

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Here’s what Monica gets into…

🍯 The importance of trusting yourself over anything outside of you 🍯 How your need for control blocks the connection to your intuition 🍯 Scientific insights on the body’s second brain and trauma responses 🍯 How to build safety within through vulnerability, trust, and somatic healing 🍯 Tips for shifting from control to trust in your life and relationships 🍯 The importance of embracing dysregulation as part of healing 🍯 The power of surrender and living amidst uncertainty 🍯 Her plans to host highly intimate, curated, and luxurious retreats designed to reset your nervous system and intuition (seriously excited about this!)

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