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106: Q&A: brain in the game, pleasure blocks & cervix curiosities

Yes, please...

Show Notes

This Q&A episode is packed with real, raw, and relatable questions from my FLOWER POWER event last week. Listen and learn lots! It's fun, honest, and empowering. No shame, no filter – just truth, insight, and lots of pussy wisdom.

In this episode, I answer:

What does it mean that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone?

Why do I feel shame or lack of fulfillment after orgasming quickly?

What is de-armoring and how does it help with sexual healing?

Can I explore cervical stimulation if I have an IUD?

Why can’t I locate my cervix – where is it really?

How do I know if a penis is touching the cervix?

Is it normal to have structures inside my vagina that feel like tubes?

Why do clitoral orgasms feel too intense or make me cramp?

What’s the difference between self-pleasure and masturbation?

What can I do when I can’t orgasm with a partner due to pressure?

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