In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

Talking about neurodivergence and gender identity

In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

Show Notes

Many people who learn and think differently are also on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum. This can be a lot for kids—and their families—to navigate.

In this episode of “In It,” Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek talk to Kade Friedman. Kade is the Director of Education for PINE, the Program for Inclusion and Neurodiversity Education.

Kade identifies as non-binary and neurodivergent. They work with teachers to guide them in teaching neurodivergent, disabled, and gender-expansive students. They also work with families of neurodivergent and gender-questioning kids.

Listen to get all of the following: - Tips for families of kids who are discovering their queer identity - Suggestions for teachers to help them create an inclusive environment - Important dos and don’ts to keep in mind

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