Show Notes
You've been doing the work. Staying present instead of shutting down. Catching the old reaction before it takes over. And some part of you is still waiting for proof that it's actually working.
This episode closes out a series on the difference between performing change and actually becoming different. You'll hear:
Why real change rarely confirms itself the moment it happens
The difference between complying with what a marriage needs and actually participating in it
What she's genuinely watching for, and why it's rarely the big gestures
What it looks like when traction finally becomes visible
Why this isn't a finish line, and what the real test looks like once change starts to hold
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